Sometimes it's feast or famine
There have been times in my life when I've been searching frantically for a job or a business venture and the pool of available opportunities was drier than Death Valley in August. And then, there were times when things were coming at me so fast and furious, I had a hard time deciding WHICH opportunity to take.
Ever been in that spot?
How do you know which opportunity or choice is the right one?
Here's a great way to decide.
Recently I finished a 6-part class given by David Neagle called the Miracle of Money. It was an amazing experience. In the class we learned, among other things, that when you set a goal for something (and in the class, it was a money goal) the opportunity to create the money and realize the goal will present itself. (Sidebar: there's more detail than I can go into for now, but suffice it to say things really do show up)
When we'd set goals for the amounts of money we wanted, believe me no one had a clue as to how we were going to get it. Then,as the opportunities started showing up, I and a bunch of other people in the class had a hard time making a choice as to which direction to take.
David gave us four questions that helped us, and now you, figure out the right path to follow. Here are the four very simple questions to ask yourself that make a world of difference:
1) Is this opportunity something I want to be, do or have? If it isn't, no need to go any further. You've got your answer. If you know deep down this thing isn't for you, don't do it. After a while you'll be frustrated at best and miserable at worst. Now, if it's something you're totally jazzed about, on to question #2.
2) Is being, doing or having this taking me closer to my goal?
3) Is being, doing or having this in alignment with Universal (God's) Law (more life to all and less to none)?
4) Does being, doing or having this violate the rights of others (does it take away someone else’s right to choose)? The answers you want are yeses to the first three questions and no to the fourth. Stepping on another persons rights will always bite the stepper in the behind in the long run.
These four questions are so simple, but so powerful. The next time you're faced with a big decision and feeling stuck, go through the questions. You already have the right answers inside of you. These questions will help you find them.
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I agree that we should actively and creatively be looking for opportunities to reach our goals. And when we've reached those goals, we'll have new ones!
Great Questions to consider! Thanks so much for sharing!
You’re 100% correct Wil. The more we set goals and accomplish them, the more bigger and better opportunities come our way!
You’re welcome Jen. Those 4 questions have helped me weed through (and pass over) a lot of “bright shiny objects”. They work every time 🙂
I really like the 4 evaluation questions. These are helpful when you've got the shiny object syndrome and are tempted to go after it. Great post!
Setting goals is just an important thing to do; I am going to work on it for next year. The questions that you gave us Beth will keep us on the pat, otherwise we are going off track soo easily. Thank you Beth, I will keep them in mind!
Excellent plan to follow! Love the questions! Thanks!
Great questions!
Thanks AJ!! 🙂
Thanks Denny! Those 4 questions work every time!
Exactly Tiffany…they help to get clear on the things that really SHOULD be done. Thanks!
It sure is Olga and the more we can stay focused, the more we get done. We all know it, but it’s just so darned easy to get off course sometimes. Setting goals and sticking to them is the answer and those questions are a huge help 🙂