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Ooooops…They Did It Again

Posted on: August 9th, 2011 by Beth Heilman

Well folks, just when you thought it was safe to go back in the economic water…Wall Street (and Congress) laid another goose egg (and this one ain’t golden).

Unless you’ve been stranded on a desert island somewhere, since the beginning of August the stock market has been going backwards the likes of which we haven’t seen since the Recession started. The reasons behind it according to all the political pundits don’t amount to a hill of beans.

The reason I’m writing this today is for you.

The purpose of this post today is not to rant, (well, maybe a little) but to impress upon you that change, whether economic or otherwise, is inevitable.

Are you ready for it?

What happens if businesses start laying off again? Is your job secure?

Are you sure?

If you’re reading this, it’s probably because you’ve at least toyed with the idea on becoming an entrepreneur…of creating a business of your own.

You want to do the work you love and not have to worry about the boss calling you into his office to tell you that “due to the economy they have to eliminate several positions” and yours is one of them.

I heard those words nearly four years ago. It happened to me. I don’t want the same thing to happen to you.

Sadly, at the time I wasn’t very well prepared. You don’t have to go through the heartache that I did.

The time to do something is now. It’s time to really do some soul searching to rediscover your passions. You may have been so caught up in day-to-day responsibilities that you put those dreams, those passions on the back burner.

You told yourself you’d get back to them “some day”.

My friend, someday is here. Take control of your future and your family’s future.

Write your own paycheck by creating your own business (and your own economy) instead of waiting for your boss to hand you the check HE thinks you deserve. You CAN do it. Believe it.

If not now…when? If not you…who?

Believe in you. I do.

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Daily Grind or Daily Grin? The Difference is in the “D”

Posted on: June 18th, 2011 by Beth Heilman

Here’s a question for you…when you think of the work you do, the way you make your living, what’s your reaction?

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Do your shoulders droop and the big black cloud of doom hover overhead because you’re not happy with what your doing?

Or…

Does a big wide smile come across your face because you love what you do for a living so much it doesn’t even feel like work?

My hope for you is the second scenario, but the reality for the majority of folks (at least until I get ahold of ’em) is they feel trapped in unfulfilling work because they “have to pay the bills”. They’ve become a victim of the “Daily Grind” instead of doing work that’s truly meaningful for them. At first, they feel like they have no choice when in reality all they have to do it take care of that darned “d”, as in DECIDE.

In other words, rather than feeling stuck, they just need help d-eciding to do something different.

Can you really make a living doing something you love? Something you’re passionate about?

Not only yes, but a big, fat, hairy YES!

Set some time aside this weekend and just think…just dream. What is it you love to do; that you’d do all day long whether you got paid for it or not? Write those things down. Make a list of whatever comes to mind and then see if there’s a way you could actually make money doing it.

Don’t be afraid to think outside the box. What seems at first like a crazy idea could be a million dollar business-to-be.

So which will it be? Daily Grind or Daily Grin? It all starts with a dream, but the difference is in the “D”, the D-ecision to do what you love.

I think it was Confucius who said, “Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life”.

Confucius was right…

What do you think about creating a business doing what you love? Leave me a comment below… 🙂

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Why Motivation Doesn’t Last

Posted on: February 10th, 2011 by Beth Heilman

This video by PJ McClure, The Mindset Maven is a great explanation of why external motivation doesn’t last. At least not for long. The only true motivation comes from inside you. Watch and enjoy (and be sure and leave your comments. I’d love to hear from you)

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How To Live A Whole Hearted Life

Posted on: December 16th, 2010 by Beth Heilman

Storyteller and researcher Dr. Brene Brown will make you laugh (and cry) as she tells about her research into what it takes to live a whole hearted life. After you watch it, be sure and leave a comment. This truly is a game changer.

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Motivation And Momentum: The Keys To Reaching your Goals

Posted on: December 10th, 2010 by Beth Heilman

One of the most difficult parts of goal achievement is simply getting started.  It’s easy enough to dream and plan, but many people get stuck in this phase indefinitely and avoid taking action.  Planning and dreaming might make you feel like you’re doing something about your goals, but if you never actually take a step forward you’ll never achieve them.  In order to see measurable progress, you have to step out of your comfort zones and take action.

Keep Moving Forward

When you finally do gather your courage and begin moving forward, what usually happens?  You realize it’s WAY harder than you thought it would be, right?  It feels like you’re trying to run uphill.  You keep tripping over obstacles, facing setbacks and delays, dealing with fear and anxiety, and fighting a daily battle to stay motivated.

It’s during this difficult phase that most people give up.  They decide that “it isn’t meant to be” right now, so they set their dream aside and vow to try again later.  Or worse, they resign themselves to a mediocre life because they don’t believe they have what it takes to succeed.  They’ve “failed,” so they’re not going to try any more.

Have you done this?  Most people have!

However, this doesn’t have to be the end of the story.  You can pick up your dreams, dust them off and try again.  But this time you should know about a little something called Momentum.

You see, the difficult phase I just described is what happens at the beginning when you’re trying to gain momentum.  Most people quit during this phase because they think it’s ALWAYS going to be this hard.  What they don’t realize is that every effort they put toward the achievement of their goals will build on the previous efforts.  With every step forward the process gets easier and easier.  Finally, they’ve put so much energy and effort into the process that momentum begins to take over.  Suddenly they realize that they don’t have to push so hard to keep moving forward.  It becomes fun . . . even easy to achieve their goal.

This same experience can be yours!  All you have to do is keep moving forward.  Keep working toward your dreams and never quit.  Momentum WILL take over eventually!

If you want to get momentum working even more quickly for you there are a few ways to do it, but they can be summed up in one sentence:

Be willing to work harder, faster and take bigger risks than you have in the past.

The reason why momentum can be delayed sometimes is because many people take very tentative steps toward their goals.  They’re afraid to really give it their all, so they hold back much of the energy and power they could be devoting toward their goal.  Even if they’re not aware of it, they may feel more comfortable working at a slower pace, so they avoid taking big risks and instead take baby steps.

There’s not a thing wrong with this approach if it suits you!  However, if you want to make faster progress and build momentum quickly, think about taking bigger steps and giving your full energy and focus toward making it happen.  By doing so, you’ll push through the difficult beginning and find yourself coasting before you know it.

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